|Stressful times Paul, I wish you both the best.|
It is pointless fretting (but bloody near impossible not to) about the possible results of the tests.
In my own experience with cancer, get the facts, diagnonsis and proposed treatment regime and go from there.
If it is cancer, everyone is different, they wont tell you all the possible side effects of the treatment (seems to stop people going catatonic with shock or running screaming out the door) and they will just deal with what does occur.
Both of you go to the doctor, specialist and oncology appointments, take notes lots of info with long names and you both will be somewhat distracted and worried.
Stay positive, this is very important.
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